Dear Sir,
How do you deal with someone who tells you he loves you but calls you dumb, hangs up the phone on you, tells you you’re ugly, miserable and fat? My boyfriend does this to me and sometimes even when we don’t have an argument or fight, out of the blue he starts saying nasty things to me. Then when I cry, he leaves. Then he come back the next day or two days and says he’s sorry, he loves me and he will not do it again. Sometimes he even cries, but then he ends up doing it again. Why does he hurt me this way?
Hurt
Dear Hurt,
Run! Get yourself far away from this abuser. You do not deal with someone like that. He is sick. He obviously gets pleasure from hurting you and the longer you stay with him the likelier the chance that his abuse of you can become physical. The constant verbal abuse will also damage your self esteem. Please do not allow anyone to treat you this way in the name of love. No one who loves you will ever behave like that towards you.
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